My son works at a chic coffee bar where all employees must wear a head-covering of some sort. Since this is a hip coffee bar, his choice of head gear is of interest. Of interest for how he will be perceived by fellow hip employees. Of interest for how he will be perceived by the hip patrons….. Of interest for the message he bears. He frequently sports a baseball cap brim backwards. It is a red cap with a rainbow, the logo from the TODAY show.
It simply says: TODAY.
What an appropriate reminder for morning java patrons! TODAY.
Not last academic year.
Not that season when you were down with mono.
Not that phase of life when you were anxious and knew not what you wanted or who you were.
Not those years when you were in a relationship that depleted you and just felt wrong.
Not any day from the past when you felt sad, or lonely, angry or resentful, apathetic or unsure.
What a distracting trap to daydream or obsess on what went before:
what she did! what he said! how unfair was that! wow! that did not go – as planned!
What of it?
TODAY is here – now. Focus on the rainbow of possibility of this very 24 hours.
The past – is – the past.
TODAY is here but once. Wrestle with it. Own it. Be hip to even its tiniest of messages.
And move on to a fresh TODAY.