“In spite of warnings, nothing much happens until the status quo becomes more painful than change.”
~ L.J. Peter
Why are we so resistant to change? Change challenges us to think in fresh ways. Change challenges us to revisit past patterns – to break those patterns.
To stop the treadmill and walk out of sync for a while.
We must evolve from where we were to where we are going to be. And it is not always clear where the there – is.
Facing the unknown churns up emotions: fear of the unfamiliar, anger at discomfort. What is going on? What should I do? Why is this happening?
How is your status quo?
Are you at ease, feeling fulfilled and creatively challenged at work?
Is your financial house in order? Bills paid on time? Debt-free?
Making enough to be self-sustainable?
How do you feel? Are you tired? Energized? Clear-headed? Focused? What do you make of the human shape you see in the mirror? Does it show a thriving human specimen?
How is that human being interacting with family? with work colleagues?
Are your relationships loving and supportive?
Are you lonely? Isolated?
Pain. Do you recognize it? Are you curing and conquering it? Or, numbing it with paralyzing distractions and excesses:
fantasy games and novels and television
vicariously “living” through Facebook
wandering the mall or the Internet
eating and drinking with no awareness of hunger or thirst
sleeping and sleeping some more, rationalizing your life away…
blaming others for your paralysis, your lack of motivation
Put pain to work in your life. It is there to draw your attention to a dis-ease in your life that requires you to CHANGE, to show up differently, to go boldly down a different path.
Move past the pain and feel the joy of returning to the leading hero that is YOU.